How to Achieve Your Life Purpose and be all that you came here to be

Free Spirits – monthly meetings

Free Spirits Monthly Meetings

- how to enhance your life

Free Spirits

Free Spirits

- taking back your power

Sacred Circle – workshop

SACRED CIRCLE – WORKSHOP We are unique individuals and we are all one. Interconnected by an energy sea of consciousness. Affected by the wider systems that we belong to; family, work systems, cultural systems, media. Called the collective Consciousness. We are healing these systems as we heal ourselves; contributing to global transformation. Healing doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with us. Healing is about wholeness and evolution. Jung referred to ‘collective problems’ showing up in millions of individual psyches. We can feel less alone, if we know we are working things out together. Sacred circle invites us to bring any issues to light. So that we can see, experience and explore our ways of managing life. Providing the opportunity for freedom and resolution, to restore our natural flow of love.

Growing into the Light

Growing into the Light

- the art of co-creation

Self-destructive instructions

If you ever have to say ‘lighten up’ to someone, you’ve failed twice. The first time, when you misjudged an interaction and the other person reacted in a way you’re unhappy with, and the second time, when you issue this instruction, one that is guaranteed to evoke precisely the opposite reaction you’re intending.

I’ll add “I was joking,” to this list, because it’s an incredibly lame excuse for a failed interaction.

One more: Raising your voice while you say, “You’re just going to have to calm down!” (And I’ll add librarians yelling at kids to be quiet…)

It’s completely valid to come to the conclusion that someone else can’t be a worthy audience, conversation partner or otherwise interact with you. You can quietly say to yourself, “this guy is a stiff, I’m never going to be able to please him.” But the minute you throw back instructions designed to ‘cure’ the other person, I fear you’re going to get precisely the opposite of what you were hoping for.

(Generally speaking, the word “oh” is so neutral, it’s a helpful go to pause while you wait for things to calm down.)

(Seth Godin)

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Free Spirits – monthly meetings

Free Spirits Monthly Meetings

- how to enhance your life

Free Spirits

Free Spirits

- taking back your power

Sacred Circle – workshop

SACRED CIRCLE – WORKSHOP We are unique individuals and we are all one. Interconnected by an energy sea of consciousness. Affected by the wider systems that we belong to; family, work systems, cultural systems, media. Called the collective Consciousness. We are healing these systems as we heal ourselves; contributing to global transformation. Healing doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with us. Healing is about wholeness and evolution. Jung referred to ‘collective problems’ showing up in millions of individual psyches. We can feel less alone, if we know we are working things out together. Sacred circle invites us to bring any issues to light. So that we can see, experience and explore our ways of managing life. Providing the opportunity for freedom and resolution, to restore our natural flow of love.

Growing into the Light

Growing into the Light

- the art of co-creation

Robert Mason

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